Men have sexualized the breast (maybe because it reminds them of their mother?) I just don't want your hands near me. Many cats can be paw-shy and they donât like having their claws touched. My hunger for touch has only grown, his aversion has grown â itâs lose/lose. It's not even the germs, the smell, or the risk of pick-pockets. And, licking and sucking just really annoys me. There has to be a reason other than, "It feels weird." If I'm scared, angry, or stressed out I don't like being touched. When you don't want to be touched by your significant other, your family, children or friends, it can be extremely difficult. I usually try to suck it up but end up cringing or trying to move away. In fact she's been winding me up with it by rubbing my arm loads, and things like that. I hate feet... touching them or having mine touched. Of course I'm fine with my family hugging me. Iâve been like this my whole life. I hate it! I don't understand it either. You can contact The National Domestic Violence Hotline online by clicking âchat nowâ or ⦠I hate being touched as well. Somebody posted an article about Peter A. Levine's theory of trauma. And as with many scientific studies, this one can be used to inform future research and possibly alter the way therapists and doctors treat patients . I don't like it and I don't want to be so detached and so cold. Some people experience severe aversion to being touched. It could be insecurity, or you might have a stronger sense of touch. ⢠Donât hope that things might be different. ... You feel like cats just *get* you. I just donât like people touching me, male or female. don't like nipples to be touched . I'm not the touchy-feely type, and I'm pretty good at putting that vibe out there. Iâm not trying to be rude, I just donât like it and it makes me uncomfortable. I Don't Like My Wife Anymore: I Can't Stand My Wife Anymore. There are endless reasons why relationships end up in a place like this. Family is fine but strangers may be perverts or not wash their hands or even worse be touchy feely-like people for no reason at all. I can relate 100%, I donât like being touched by people and donât like hugs from anyone other than my sister and my long term boyfriend. Something I should have empathy for! I don't think you could ever know just how truly special you are, that even on the darkest nights you are my brightest star. Family is invaluable to most of us and when they donât support, it is like Game Over for most of us. In other words, it doesn't matter how well you think you know your family, it only matters that you know and react to the signs of abuse. Child Development ... (like the comic, Howie Mandel) who donât like touching other peopleâs bodies. Maybe you just don't like people all that much. It's just that I don't like to be touched, period. ... of being touched. I've talked about this before and I try to look into myself and find an answer, but I can't, the problem isn't getting better. I hate shaking hands and hugs. I was raped several times by a group of boys when I was 4 years old. Some kitties like being touched in particular areas but are sensitive about other parts of their body. At the extreme end, it's a phobia called haphephobia. It makes me feel gross. even from my parents i dont like being touch, only the dog 07-15-2017, 08:16 AM theoldnorthstate The severity of the condition can range from mild dislike all the way through to a total abhorrence of being touched. Bad enough for my parents to tell me to avoid going near him when we visit after I told them about how he touched me âdown thereâ. Many people usually understand this however my family doesnât seem to. 22 years into a relationship where he doesnât like touching or being touched. I have no desire for affection or attention, most of the time I just prefer to be left alone. I tend to react negatively when older people (15 years or older) touch me. For instance, my high school Bio Teacher said, she wanted to become a scientist, but her parents married her off. I don't like people touching me. They don't ⦠I wasnât one of her children, I was her husband. Anyone have this experience or know what process I could pursue into recovering from it. Coco (2017) - Yarn is the best way to find video clips by quote. Because even when some just accidentally brushes pass me I hate the sensation. I don't like people just walking into my personal space. It happened at a babysitter's home. I wish Iâd left him 20 years ago. There wasnât any big hoo-ha or dramatic family ⦠I especially hate it when some person you barely know assumes they can touch you. I donât even hug my family members or my friends. It feels like a violation of boundaries. In order to justify the nipples being touched like that, something had to be present. It pisses me off. I do love him (I think) and the thought of losing him scares me, but I don't want to be touched. ... Family Life. 22 Things Everyone Who Hates Being Touched Needs People To Know. Had a manager hug me saying hello - how is that appropriate when I'm married. Find the exact moment in a TV show, movie, or music video you want to share. ⢠Keep the time with the family or family member down to a minimum. I moved out and got a job at 18 and have been living alone since. I don't mind hugging friends or even strangers (I was on placement in a hospital and didn't mind holding the hands of patients who were scared or nervous) but I just really can't stand hugging or being touched ⦠A shocking video of police arresting a 10-year-old autistic boy in Florida has appeared online. Is this something psychological, or am I just being ⦠10. I don't like my wife. Anyone else it's like 'get out of the personal bubble.' My family has never laid a hand on me in an inappropriate way. It made me feel like she didnât love me. I dont like to be touch and im 55 years old, you are invading my space. People with autism don't just dislike being touched; they are physiologically affected by it. I realize that they are good people, I just want to be alone by myself. Interestingly, I can get aroused by grazing my own nipples and breasts but I really hate to have them touched by my husband. (Also, there might be a tiny underlying fear about being caught in ⦠I crave hugs from my mother and father, and don't mind if my sister's hugged me, though I'd prefer it if they didn't. I also can't stand someone touching the front of my neck - I guess it makes me feel like I'm getting ready to be strangled. âI just spent all day with sick boogery kids clawing at me. When I'm horny, I don't mind being touched, as long as they are around my age and not related to me. The interesting thing is that I don't remember this being a problem when I was younger. It makes me feel trapped and physically sick. and I don't feel like I need to provide this body part of mine to my husband just to turn HIM on. I was her husband of 10 years. I donât know how many dreams that have got killed this way on the name of wishing good for children. I'm 22 now and my parents have just decided to move in with me. Help your kitten learn to associate being touched in sensitive areas by petting near that area one or two times and then offering a treat. Iâve learnt to deal with it on occasions where it would be awkward or rude not to, so it doesnât impact my interpersonal relationships too much, but I still donât like it. But with me it's more, don't touch me when I don't want to be touched. If I'm really really sad, I don't mind being touched, mostly by anyone. I'm gay and I hate the gay bars and gay community because so many guys just walk up and touch me. Easily move forward or backward to ⦠I felt offended. It's painful to say that, isn't it? Ick. Since my flashbacks began in 1999, I hate to be touched - hugs, pats on the back, simple things like that. Which is a lot because my family does it as affection. Basically, I canât stand being physically touched by most people â and I especially donât like being hugged. I don't like being touched. Feeling touched out â This can be primarily experienced by mothers of young children. When Iâm touched and not expecting it, my body gets tense and I physically jump, like you do when youâre startled or scared. ... i am pretty much 99% to 100% sure that it is not an emotional thing for me. I don't think you will ever fully comprehend how you've made my dreams come true or how you've opened my heart Including by family except my mum. I justâ¦want some space,â she said. I'm in my 40s, and I have noticed that I don't like being hugged by family or relatives. Some people just don't want to be touched. I don't like to be around my family. They get highly offended and say things like â Iâm family donât you dare flinch awayâ. I don't like being touched by strangers. I donât want to be touched for a while. I don't think you will ever fully understand how you've touched my life and made me who I am. I even cringe when family members touch I've barely even dated and I'm 33 and still a virgin. If you want to do something to change that, you first have to find out why it is that you don't like to be touched in the first place. See! Why I Don't Want to Be Touched As Someone Whose Experienced Physical Abuse Editorâs Note: If youâve experienced domestic violence, the following post could be potentially triggering. I am back in the house where it all began and I figured we would just take it easy and do a very open and honest Q&A. I don't even wear turtlenecks for that matter. I canât think of anything traumatic that happened to me in my childhood. I don't think I was ever sexually molested or abused, so it's not PTSD. 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